Helping My Partner With Ps

Hi All, My Partner suffers with Ps and Ps Arthritis. It came on suddenly nearly 7 years ago. It has really impacted our lives. I do what I can to support them, try and be positive, be there when it's taking an emotional toll, as well as working full time and doing most of the stuff around the house and garden. However, I am concerned they are not dealing with it very well, as much as they put on a brave face. It's been so long now, I'd hoped we would be dealing with it better, but it's not the case. It doesn't help that the doctor took them off the anti-inflammatory drug nearly 2 years ago, kept postponing tests to see if there was internal bleeding, finally did the tests 8 months later, forgot to send over the results for 3 months, which, came back clear, but still say they shouldn't be on the drug! Another doc asked if they were on a twin drug as a replacement, told them to get regular doc to look into it but they haven't asked the doc and has now forgotten this happened. I understand there can be a mental impact when developing Ps, how it can reduce ones independence and possibly prevent hobbies and activities, but it just feels like I can't do much more to support them, as much as I try. I want us to enjoy our lives as best possible, but sometimes it's like me trying to help us get through, while being as sensitive to the situation as possible, is not taken seriously. I've come here in hopes of becoming part of this community, cos right now I feel kind of alone. I would like to see my partner get involved too, maybe make it easier for them. Maybe they're here and I don't know it. I just want us to try and be happy. Thanks in advance.