Question about inverse psoriasis

Hi, I've struggled with inverse psoriasis on my genitals for about 7 months after a stressful period in the winter. I've used both mild steroids and pimecrolimus (Elidel). Now the skin looks okay, but still feels sore and sensitive to touch. Is it just supposed to feel this way from now on? Right now I only use a balm moisturizer and a barrier cream to see if it's urine that can cause extra irritation. I tried this out today. The only times i don't feel any discomfort down there is when I shower and sleep nude. Maybe I don't use the medicines long enough, or maybe it is some steps that I'm missing? Can anybody relate,or have any tips deling with the tenderness? When I don't use anything on my genitals the skin gets extremely dry, flakes, peels, and gets more red. I've ordered manoil (penis creme), so it will be interesring how this works. Thanks for your replies in advance. Man, 36