Genital psioriasis, afraid and depressed

Hello everyone, I have always had some psoriasis in the genital area, and after taking oral corticosteroids for 3 weeks due to an ear infection, it has drastically worsened... I can’t engage in sexual activity, and it has affected the entire shaft of the penis, making the top completely red. I had three consultations, and all of them prescribed steroids... One dermatologist prescribed betamethasone, another mometasone, and finally clobetasol. I should use betamethasone twice a day for 2 weeks and once a day for another 2 weeks... Mometasone should be applied once a day for 10 days, every other day for 2 weeks, and then twice a week for another 3 months. Clobetasol should be used once every 3 days for 1 month. I haven’t started any of these treatments because I am afraid of skin thinning and permanent damage to both my skin and my sexual life. I don’t understand why they didn’t prescribe Protopic, which seems to be safer for areas like the genital region. I don’t know what to do and am currently feeling depressed about this situation. I would like to start one of the treatments suggested by the dermatologists, but the treatment periods seem too prolonged with steroids that are too strong...