Psoriasis Spreading to Ears and Eyes

Hey all, This is my first time posting as I am at my breaking point. I am Taylor, I am 26 and I have had psoriasis for as long as I can remember. I believe I was around 12 years old when I was first diagnosed. Initially it was very mild, a couple of patches on my scalp, but as the years have gone on it has got worse and worse. My scalp is full of thick white scales but only at the bottom/nape of my neck with a red inflamed border. Now, within the last year, it has decided to spread to the insides of my ears and on my eyelids/eyebrows. I have been under dermatology for a long time and feel like I have been prescribed everything under the sun. Either what they prescribe only works for a little while and then stops, or it just doesnt work at all. I have had multiple shampoos, creams, foams, ointments. They have even tried me on Methotrexate which I took for 6 weeks and then had to stop as I couldn't tolerate the side effects, mainly the nausea. I am trying my hardest to just accept that I am going to have to live with this for the rest of my life, but I just wish something made it easier. If anyone has any recommendations of something I can buy to use for my ears and eyelids, that would be great as I am currently using Silkis in my ears but that just literally softens the scales which removes them within a few hours and then they grow back again a few hours later! Between all 3 of these areas that I get psoriasis, it is making me so self conscious. I usually wear my hair up but I no longer can because it shows the scales at the bottom of my scalp/neck and it also allows my ears to be on show which just look awful full of scales. My eyelids constantly flake it is just awful. Please help :(